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Part 4 of 7 | There's No Such Thing as Cardio | James Steele II 21studios 1 Views • 12 years ago

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James Steele (or James Steele II as he is known online and through his blog) is a 24 year old Lecturer and PhD Research Student at Southampton Solent University in the UK. James is an exercise scientist by profession having gained a first class honours degree in Applied Sport Science and during his time of study working with a wide range of elite athletic populations including; international Ironman triathlete's, Paralympic wheelchair basketball and rugby, semi professional muay thai fighters and professional football (soccer). In addition he has worked with non-athletic populations including the elderly, diseased and a population that he is currently conducting research with; sufferers of chronic low back pain.

James is active as an academic pursuing his PhD research into chronic low back pain, its multifactorial symptoms and the effects of isolated resistance exercise for the lumbar extensors in treating it. He has also recently had a paper published with his colleagues, on which he was second author, presenting the scientific literature of resistance training and suggesting recommendations for its optimal implementation based upon the current evidence.

Despite his clear academic focus in the area of exercise science, James also has many other areas of interest on which he occasionally writes when the time permits at jamessteelii.blogspot.com, one of these topics being philosophy. James has always taken an interest in the nature of the universe and man's relationship to it yet never had a conceptual framework for which to understand it.

A few years ago whilst reading Mike Mentzers books on High Intensity Training James was introduced to a philosophical perspective on exercise based around reason and logic. It was from here that he was introduced to philosophy as a subject to study and more specifically Ayn Rand's Objectivism. Since then James has dedicated time in his personal life to further his knowledge on all areas of philosophy, and specifically Objectivism, providing himself with an armchair philosopher's perspective on the universe, man and life.

Visit James at http://jamessteeleii.blogspot.com/

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Part 5 of 7 | There's No Such Thing as Cardio | James Steele II 21studios 1 Views • 12 years ago

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About the speaker :

James Steele (or James Steele II as he is known online and through his blog) is a 24 year old Lecturer and PhD Research Student at Southampton Solent University in the UK. James is an exercise scientist by profession having gained a first class honours degree in Applied Sport Science and during his time of study working with a wide range of elite athletic populations including; international Ironman triathlete's, Paralympic wheelchair basketball and rugby, semi professional muay thai fighters and professional football (soccer). In addition he has worked with non-athletic populations including the elderly, diseased and a population that he is currently conducting research with; sufferers of chronic low back pain.

James is active as an academic pursuing his PhD research into chronic low back pain, its multifactorial symptoms and the effects of isolated resistance exercise for the lumbar extensors in treating it. He has also recently had a paper published with his colleagues, on which he was second author, presenting the scientific literature of resistance training and suggesting recommendations for its optimal implementation based upon the current evidence.

Despite his clear academic focus in the area of exercise science, James also has many other areas of interest on which he occasionally writes when the time permits at jamessteelii.blogspot.com, one of these topics being philosophy. James has always taken an interest in the nature of the universe and man's relationship to it yet never had a conceptual framework for which to understand it.

A few years ago whilst reading Mike Mentzers books on High Intensity Training James was introduced to a philosophical perspective on exercise based around reason and logic. It was from here that he was introduced to philosophy as a subject to study and more specifically Ayn Rand's Objectivism. Since then James has dedicated time in his personal life to further his knowledge on all areas of philosophy, and specifically Objectivism, providing himself with an armchair philosopher's perspective on the universe, man and life.

Visit James at http://jamessteeleii.blogspot.com/

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Part 6 of 7 | There's No Such Thing as Cardio | James Steele II 21studios 0 Views • 12 years ago

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About the speaker :

James Steele (or James Steele II as he is known online and through his blog) is a 24 year old Lecturer and PhD Research Student at Southampton Solent University in the UK. James is an exercise scientist by profession having gained a first class honours degree in Applied Sport Science and during his time of study working with a wide range of elite athletic populations including; international Ironman triathlete's, Paralympic wheelchair basketball and rugby, semi professional muay thai fighters and professional football (soccer). In addition he has worked with non-athletic populations including the elderly, diseased and a population that he is currently conducting research with; sufferers of chronic low back pain.

James is active as an academic pursuing his PhD research into chronic low back pain, its multifactorial symptoms and the effects of isolated resistance exercise for the lumbar extensors in treating it. He has also recently had a paper published with his colleagues, on which he was second author, presenting the scientific literature of resistance training and suggesting recommendations for its optimal implementation based upon the current evidence.

Despite his clear academic focus in the area of exercise science, James also has many other areas of interest on which he occasionally writes when the time permits at jamessteelii.blogspot.com, one of these topics being philosophy. James has always taken an interest in the nature of the universe and man's relationship to it yet never had a conceptual framework for which to understand it.

A few years ago whilst reading Mike Mentzers books on High Intensity Training James was introduced to a philosophical perspective on exercise based around reason and logic. It was from here that he was introduced to philosophy as a subject to study and more specifically Ayn Rand's Objectivism. Since then James has dedicated time in his personal life to further his knowledge on all areas of philosophy, and specifically Objectivism, providing himself with an armchair philosopher's perspective on the universe, man and life.

Visit James at http://jamessteeleii.blogspot.com/

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Part 7 of 7 | There's No Such Thing as Cardio | James Steele II 21studios 1 Views • 12 years ago

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About the speaker :

James Steele (or James Steele II as he is known online and through his blog) is a 24 year old Lecturer and PhD Research Student at Southampton Solent University in the UK. James is an exercise scientist by profession having gained a first class honours degree in Applied Sport Science and during his time of study working with a wide range of elite athletic populations including; international Ironman triathlete's, Paralympic wheelchair basketball and rugby, semi professional muay thai fighters and professional football (soccer). In addition he has worked with non-athletic populations including the elderly, diseased and a population that he is currently conducting research with; sufferers of chronic low back pain.

James is active as an academic pursuing his PhD research into chronic low back pain, its multifactorial symptoms and the effects of isolated resistance exercise for the lumbar extensors in treating it. He has also recently had a paper published with his colleagues, on which he was second author, presenting the scientific literature of resistance training and suggesting recommendations for its optimal implementation based upon the current evidence.

Despite his clear academic focus in the area of exercise science, James also has many other areas of interest on which he occasionally writes when the time permits at jamessteelii.blogspot.com, one of these topics being philosophy. James has always taken an interest in the nature of the universe and man's relationship to it yet never had a conceptual framework for which to understand it.

A few years ago whilst reading Mike Mentzers books on High Intensity Training James was introduced to a philosophical perspective on exercise based around reason and logic. It was from here that he was introduced to philosophy as a subject to study and more specifically Ayn Rand's Objectivism. Since then James has dedicated time in his personal life to further his knowledge on all areas of philosophy, and specifically Objectivism, providing himself with an armchair philosopher's perspective on the universe, man and life.

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There's No Such Thing as Cardio | James Steele II | Full Length HD 21studios 6 Views • 12 years ago

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About James Steele Ph.D. :

James Steele is a Lecturer in Applied Sport Science in the Health, Exercise and Sport Science department at Southampton Solent University. His job involves furthering research in the areas of health, exercise and sport science in addition to teaching on physiology, biomechanics and research methods on the Universities Sport Science, Sport Coaching and Health and Fitness related courses.

James graduated with a first class BSc (Hons) in Applied Sport Science from Southampton Solent University in 2010 and has recently completed his PhD researching the effects of isolated lumbar extension resistance training for chronic low back pain and its symptoms. In addition to his academic qualification James has gained extensive applied experience working as a strength and conditioning provider with a wide range of elite athletic populations including; international Ironman triathlete’s, Paralympic wheelchair basketball and rugby, semi-professional muay thai fighters, University American football and professional soccer.

In addition he has worked with non-athletic populations including the elderly, diseased, and a population that he continues to conduct research with; sufferers of chronic low back pain.
James has also authored several peer reviewed papers on resistance training, low back pain and the scientific method and continues to prepare research outputs with many more in the pipeline from his PhD research and post-doctoral research plans.

Despite his clear academic focus in the area of exercise science, James also has many other areas of interest on which he occasionally writes when the time permits at jamessteelii.blogspot.com, one of these topics being philosophy. James has always taken an interest in the nature of the universe and man's relationship to it yet never had a conceptual framework for which to understand it.

A few years ago whilst reading Mike Mentzers books on High Intensity Training James was introduced to a philosophical perspective on exercise based around reason and logic. It was from here that he was introduced to philosophy as a subject to study and more specifically Ayn Rand's Objectivism. Since then James has dedicated time in his personal life to further his knowledge on all areas of philosophy, and specifically Objectivism, providing himself with an armchair philosopher's perspective on the universe, man and life.

Visit James at http://jamessteeleii.blogspot.com/

Part 1 of 7 | The Relationship Talk Your Father Never Gave You | Socrates 21studios 5 Views • 11 years ago

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Name: "Sock"- shorten childhood nickname for Socrates, which is my birth name that I later had changed due to societal and peer pressures. My parents first met during a literature course in college and fell in love reading a play by Socrates... somewhere they thought it would be terribly romantic if they got married and named their first son Socrates... They did and the rest is my history... ...or so the story goes...

Six years ago I found the men's community in the emerging blogosphere, in search of not only trying to save an unhealthy and failing relationship, but in desperate search to find myself and reconnect to a society of men where I had previously always excelled and realized myself. It was something that I had lost touch of and was dearly lacking. It was the first tangible step in changing my life by re-taking control and authorship of it.

I found and discovered many, many things in the community... about myself, my life, my ideals and my values. I found and made friendships that I hold dear to this day. It more than anything for me was a culture that fostered and nurtured acts of self discovery, analysis and ability to be naked and raw with my honesty, as expressed to myself and others. It was this support group with which you could honestly engage and receive feedback, which I found so critical to my personal development. It was and still is many, many things to me well beyond 'The Game'.

Who am I? I'm honestly not sure. I can tell you I'm (currently) a 43 year old man, professional (Architect), guest speaker at The 21 Convention 2011 of Orlando Florida, a man who is still trying to honor his inner child and balance the desires, ambitions and responsibilities of a grown man... to realize an idealized self... in that regard I'm a process, part of a journey of discovery... I am a son, a brother, a friend to many, an ass-hole to some, a lover to a few and a nameless face in a crowd all in one... I am a composition of the human kaleidoscope of being... unique and utterly common... yet distinctly a noble being.

Visit Sock at http://www.manningupsmart.com

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Part 2 of 7 | The Relationship Talk Your Father Never Gave You | Socrates 21studios 1 Views • 11 years ago

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The Relationship Talk Your Father Never Gave You | Socrates | Full Length HD 21studios 4 Views • 11 years ago

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Name: "Sock"- shorten childhood nickname for Socrates, which is my birth name that I later had changed due to societal and peer pressures. My parents first met during a literature course in college and fell in love reading a play by Socrates... somewhere they thought it would be terribly romantic if they got married and named their first son Socrates... They did and the rest is my history... ...or so the story goes...

Six years ago I found the men's community in the emerging blogosphere, in search of not only trying to save an unhealthy and failing relationship, but in desperate search to find myself and reconnect to a society of men where I had previously always excelled and realized myself. It was something that I had lost touch of and was dearly lacking. It was the first tangible step in changing my life by re-taking control and authorship of it.

I found and discovered many, many things in the community... about myself, my life, my ideals and my values. I found and made friendships that I hold dear to this day. It more than anything for me was a culture that fostered and nurtured acts of self discovery, analysis and ability to be naked and raw with my honesty, as expressed to myself and others. It was this support group with which you could honestly engage and receive feedback, which I found so critical to my personal development. It was and still is many, many things to me well beyond 'The Game'.

Who am I? I'm honestly not sure. I can tell you I'm (currently) a 43 year old man, professional (Architect), guest speaker at The 21 Convention 2011 of Orlando Florida, a man who is still trying to honor his inner child and balance the desires, ambitions and responsibilities of a grown man... to realize an idealized self... in that regard I'm a process, part of a journey of discovery... I am a son, a brother, a friend to many, an ass-hole to some, a lover to a few and a nameless face in a crowd all in one... I am a composition of the human kaleidoscope of being... unique and utterly common... yet distinctly a noble being.

Visit Sock at http://www.manningupsmart.com

Dependency vs. Desire | Socrates 21studios 3 Views • 11 years ago

Part 1 of 7 | Intimate Relationships : A Contrarian Guide | Socrates 21studios 4 Views • 11 years ago

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Just Start the Conversation | Nick Sparks 21studios 1 Views • 11 years ago

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About Nick Sparks ( http://www.sparksofattraction.com/ )

Everything happens for a reason.

I learned this lesson at a fairly early age. My high school years were spent honing my social skills, and by my freshman year in college I'll admit they were good. I really had no problem making friends and always exhibited a flair for performing that continues to this very day. The kink in my armor, however, was the fact that I still hadn't figured out women.

Those first two years of college, my romantic experiences (which were never very consistent) consisted of the occasional night where I was a bit tipsy at a party, found a girl who was equally tipsy, and somehow manage to not screw anything up. It was after that 2nd year that luckily, fate interceded.

I didn't know what was about to hit me. All I knew was that it was May after my sophomore year, I couldn't go back home for another summer, and I had to find a sublet. Luckily my friend Katie had a room for me to rent in her sorority and would vouch for me to take it for the summer.

Ask any guy if he wants to drive an F1 race car and of course he'll say yes. If that same guy is tossed the keys and told to get behind the wheel, unless he was an F1 driver, he'd probably have a bit more trepidation. That was my feeling moving in that week. Of course I was excited to be surrounded by beautiful women all the time, but I was definitely not used to living with more women than my mom and sister and wasn't sure what would happen.

Luckily I had my social skills to fall back on. That spring I started building friendships with the girls in the house who were still in town, and by the time that the full heat of the summer was upon us, I was comfortable in my new home.

I quickly got a firsthand look at the conversations that girls were having about boys. Additionally, I would get to meet all of the guys that were hooking up with the girls in the house, and I soon became friends with the cooler ones. It could not have been a more perfect storm. I got bombarded with the full wonder that is the female mind and also got front row seats to watch how guys who were good with women thought and acted.

By fall, everything was different. My group of guys, which now included several of the guys I met that summer, was one of the "top" groups of guys on campus and I was dating several of the more attractive girls on campus, including a couple of my former housemates. My friends who had been absent that summer noticed the difference and began asking for advice. I became the unofficial "coach" of the group and as they started telling their friends about me, I built up a small reputation as the guy to come to for dating advice for both men and women.

Fast-forward 4 years and a million stories later and I'm working in sales as a mortgage banker for a top company in Michigan, while still being summoned for dating advice in my downtime. While sitting in my cubicle one evening, I get a call from a friend who tells me about a book called "The Game", and suggests that I can actually make a living doing what I had loved doing for the past 4 years.

In what felt like a whirlwind, I started my first blog and started offering my coaching services to the public. Fueled by good reviews, I packed up for what I thought would be a considerable stay in Chicago. During that time, Christian Hudson, an acquaintance from college, was just starting The Social Man and caught wind of some of the reviews coming out of Chicago. He invited me to come out to New York to do some work with him, and 6 months after unpacking my life in the windy city I was once again on the move to Manhattan- and the rest is history.

Everything happens for a reason. Some men were born to rap. Some men were born to program. I am lucky enough to be able to share my accumulated knowledge to help other men achieve social and dating lives that they want for themselves. No man is naturally good with women, but we all can be the moment we make the decision to get this handled.

-- Nick Sparks
(source: http://www.thesocialman.com/ab....out-the-social-man/p

What We're Facing ... | Keith Norris 21studios 1 Views • 11 years ago

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At 15, Texan Keith Norris was already involved in one of the premier fitness and weight training scenes in the country Powerhouse Gym, a legendary bodybuilding, training, and powerlifting mecca in San Antonio that launched the careers of athletes like Ms. Olympia Rachel McLish, Lori Bowen-Rice, Jeep Swenson and many others.

A knee injury derailed Keith's career as a linebacker at Texas State, but his experience rehabbing and working with some of the best strength coaches in the country continued to increase his interest in intelligent body development. In 2010, after navigating a successful 9 year military and 15 year corporate career, Keith was finally able to follow up on his lifelong dedication to training and come on board Efficient Exercise as a partner and regional manager.

Anyone who trains with Keith instantly recognizes the depth of his knowledge, experience, and the intuition he brings to the process. He seems to know exactly what it is that you need to continually progress toward your strongest, leanest self. And you can feel that he enjoys it all of it, the teaching, the relationships, and his own training in every fiber of who he is.

Keith, along with his wife, Michelle is one of the leading figures in the exploding Paleo nutrition and health movement. His tireless work promoting Paleo principles is what allowed him to reach out to Paleo celebrities like Robb Wolf and Mark Sisson to pull together 2012's super symposium, PaleoFX12. Anyone who attended PFX12 could quickly see from the line of athletes, peers, and wide-eyed newbies that lined up to speak to Keith, that he is truly on the pulse of new exciting developments in the fitness field.

Keith's blog, Ancestral Momentum - Theory to Practice, is internationally popular, and he is a regular guest on many of the premier media sites for new approaches to nutrition and body development. And, if you're lucky enough to live in Austin, you not only know Keith from the Internet, you have direct access to one of the best trainers in the world. Keith apprentices every trainer who works for EE, so no matter who you work with, you'll experience "The Keith Norris Method" infused throughout Efficient Exercise.

Learn more about Keith at : http://ancestralmomentum.com/ and http://www.therealpaleofx.com

Children Do Not "Owe" Their Parents | Yaron Brook 21studios 4 Views • 11 years ago

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Dr. Yaron Brook (M.B.A., University of Texas at Austin; Ph.D., Finance, University of Texas at Austin) is the executive director of the Ayn Rand Institute and a leading advocate of Rand's ideas. A former finance professor, he speaks internationally on such topics as the causes of the financial crisis, the morality of capitalism, and ending the growth of the state. Yaron is a columnist at Forbes.com, and his articles have been featured in the Wall Street Journal, USA Today, Investor's Business Daily, and many other publications. A frequent guest on a variety of national television programs, he is co-author of Neoconservatism: An Obituary for an Idea and contributing author of Winning the Unwinnable War: America's Self-Crippled Response to Islamic Totalitarianism. His newest book, Free Market Revolution: How Ayn Rand's Ideas Can End Big Government, co-authored with Don Watkins is now available. To follow Yaron and see his most current activities, please check out Yaron Brook and Don Watkin's blog Laissez-Faire: The Uncompromised Case for Capitalism.

Born and raised in Israel, Yaron served as a first sergeant in Israeli military intelligence and earned a BSc in civil engineering from Technion-Israel Institute of Technology in Haifa, Israel. Yaron admits to being a socialist until the age of 16--then he read Ayn Rand's Atlas Shrugged. Despite his best efforts to poke holes in Rand's arguments, he couldn't, and went on to become a student of Rand's philosophy, Objectivism.

In the late 1980s, Yaron and his wife started thinking about where in the world they would want to live their lives and raise a family. Where could they find the greatest amount of freedom and the greatest amount of opportunity? The answer was clear, so in 1987 they emigrated to the United States. He would go on to become an American citizen in 2003.

Yaron received his MBA and PhD in finance from the University of Texas at Austin. For seven years he was an award-winning finance professor at Santa Clara University, and in 1998 he cofounded a financial advisory firm, BH Equity Research, of which he is presently managing director and chairman.

While in America, Yaron continued studying Ayn Rand's philosophy. In the mid-1990s, he joined the Ayn Rand Institute's new educational program, the Objectivist Graduate Center. It was in the OGC (now expanded into the Objectivist Academic Center) that Yaron deepened his knowledge of Objectivism, thanks to the efforts of teachers such as Rand's heir, Leonard Peikoff, as well as leading Objectivist thinkers Harry Binswanger and Peter Schwartz.

It was also during this time that Yaron launched Lyceum International, an organization that for many years ran conferences on Objectivism.

In 2000 Yaron left teaching to become the executive director of the Ayn Rand Institute and go-to source for laissez-faire policy. Yaron's field of speciaties include Objectivism (the philosophy of Ayn Rand), capitalism, finance, business ethics, venture capital, economics and foreign policy.

Yaron lives in Orange County, California.

Visit Yaron at http://capitalism.aynrand.org/

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Part 1 of 7 | How to Hold Conversation Like a Man | Nick Sparks 21studios 1 Views • 11 years ago

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About Nick Sparks ( http://www.sparksofattraction.com/ )

Everything happens for a reason.

I learned this lesson at a fairly early age. My high school years were spent honing my social skills, and by my freshman year in college I'll admit they were good. I really had no problem making friends and always exhibited a flair for performing that continues to this very day. The kink in my armor, however, was the fact that I still hadn't figured out women.

Those first two years of college, my romantic experiences (which were never very consistent) consisted of the occasional night where I was a bit tipsy at a party, found a girl who was equally tipsy, and somehow manage to not screw anything up. It was after that 2nd year that luckily, fate interceded.

I didn't know what was about to hit me. All I knew was that it was May after my sophomore year, I couldn't go back home for another summer, and I had to find a sublet. Luckily my friend Katie had a room for me to rent in her sorority and would vouch for me to take it for the summer.

Ask any guy if he wants to drive an F1 race car and of course he'll say yes. If that same guy is tossed the keys and told to get behind the wheel, unless he was an F1 driver, he'd probably have a bit more trepidation. That was my feeling moving in that week. Of course I was excited to be surrounded by beautiful women all the time, but I was definitely not used to living with more women than my mom and sister and wasn't sure what would happen.

Luckily I had my social skills to fall back on. That spring I started building friendships with the girls in the house who were still in town, and by the time that the full heat of the summer was upon us, I was comfortable in my new home.

I quickly got a firsthand look at the conversations that girls were having about boys. Additionally, I would get to meet all of the guys that were hooking up with the girls in the house, and I soon became friends with the cooler ones. It could not have been a more perfect storm. I got bombarded with the full wonder that is the female mind and also got front row seats to watch how guys who were good with women thought and acted.

By fall, everything was different. My group of guys, which now included several of the guys I met that summer, was one of the "top" groups of guys on campus and I was dating several of the more attractive girls on campus, including a couple of my former housemates. My friends who had been absent that summer noticed the difference and began asking for advice. I became the unofficial "coach" of the group and as they started telling their friends about me, I built up a small reputation as the guy to come to for dating advice for both men and women.

Fast-forward 4 years and a million stories later and I'm working in sales as a mortgage banker for a top company in Michigan, while still being summoned for dating advice in my downtime. While sitting in my cubicle one evening, I get a call from a friend who tells me about a book called "The Game", and suggests that I can actually make a living doing what I had loved doing for the past 4 years.

In what felt like a whirlwind, I started my first blog and started offering my coaching services to the public. Fueled by good reviews, I packed up for what I thought would be a considerable stay in Chicago. During that time, Christian Hudson, an acquaintance from college, was just starting The Social Man and caught wind of some of the reviews coming out of Chicago. He invited me to come out to New York to do some work with him, and 6 months after unpacking my life in the windy city I was once again on the move to Manhattan- and the rest is history.

Everything happens for a reason. Some men were born to rap. Some men were born to program. I am lucky enough to be able to share my accumulated knowledge to help other men achieve social and dating lives that they want for themselves. No man is naturally good with women, but we all can be the moment we make the decision to get this handled.

-- Nick Sparks
(source: http://www.thesocialman.com/ab....out-the-social-man/p

Part 2 of 7 | How to Hold Conversation Like a Man | Nick Sparks 21studios 2 Views • 11 years ago

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About Nick Sparks ( http://www.sparksofattraction.com/ )

Everything happens for a reason.

I learned this lesson at a fairly early age. My high school years were spent honing my social skills, and by my freshman year in college I'll admit they were good. I really had no problem making friends and always exhibited a flair for performing that continues to this very day. The kink in my armor, however, was the fact that I still hadn't figured out women.

Those first two years of college, my romantic experiences (which were never very consistent) consisted of the occasional night where I was a bit tipsy at a party, found a girl who was equally tipsy, and somehow manage to not screw anything up. It was after that 2nd year that luckily, fate interceded.

I didn't know what was about to hit me. All I knew was that it was May after my sophomore year, I couldn't go back home for another summer, and I had to find a sublet. Luckily my friend Katie had a room for me to rent in her sorority and would vouch for me to take it for the summer.

Ask any guy if he wants to drive an F1 race car and of course he'll say yes. If that same guy is tossed the keys and told to get behind the wheel, unless he was an F1 driver, he'd probably have a bit more trepidation. That was my feeling moving in that week. Of course I was excited to be surrounded by beautiful women all the time, but I was definitely not used to living with more women than my mom and sister and wasn't sure what would happen.

Luckily I had my social skills to fall back on. That spring I started building friendships with the girls in the house who were still in town, and by the time that the full heat of the summer was upon us, I was comfortable in my new home.

I quickly got a firsthand look at the conversations that girls were having about boys. Additionally, I would get to meet all of the guys that were hooking up with the girls in the house, and I soon became friends with the cooler ones. It could not have been a more perfect storm. I got bombarded with the full wonder that is the female mind and also got front row seats to watch how guys who were good with women thought and acted.

By fall, everything was different. My group of guys, which now included several of the guys I met that summer, was one of the "top" groups of guys on campus and I was dating several of the more attractive girls on campus, including a couple of my former housemates. My friends who had been absent that summer noticed the difference and began asking for advice. I became the unofficial "coach" of the group and as they started telling their friends about me, I built up a small reputation as the guy to come to for dating advice for both men and women.

Fast-forward 4 years and a million stories later and I'm working in sales as a mortgage banker for a top company in Michigan, while still being summoned for dating advice in my downtime. While sitting in my cubicle one evening, I get a call from a friend who tells me about a book called "The Game", and suggests that I can actually make a living doing what I had loved doing for the past 4 years.

In what felt like a whirlwind, I started my first blog and started offering my coaching services to the public. Fueled by good reviews, I packed up for what I thought would be a considerable stay in Chicago. During that time, Christian Hudson, an acquaintance from college, was just starting The Social Man and caught wind of some of the reviews coming out of Chicago. He invited me to come out to New York to do some work with him, and 6 months after unpacking my life in the windy city I was once again on the move to Manhattan- and the rest is history.

Everything happens for a reason. Some men were born to rap. Some men were born to program. I am lucky enough to be able to share my accumulated knowledge to help other men achieve social and dating lives that they want for themselves. No man is naturally good with women, but we all can be the moment we make the decision to get this handled.

-- Nick Sparks
(source: http://www.thesocialman.com/ab....out-the-social-man/p

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Everything happens for a reason.

I learned this lesson at a fairly early age. My high school years were spent honing my social skills, and by my freshman year in college I'll admit they were good. I really had no problem making friends and always exhibited a flair for performing that continues to this very day. The kink in my armor, however, was the fact that I still hadn't figured out women.

Those first two years of college, my romantic experiences (which were never very consistent) consisted of the occasional night where I was a bit tipsy at a party, found a girl who was equally tipsy, and somehow manage to not screw anything up. It was after that 2nd year that luckily, fate interceded.

I didn't know what was about to hit me. All I knew was that it was May after my sophomore year, I couldn't go back home for another summer, and I had to find a sublet. Luckily my friend Katie had a room for me to rent in her sorority and would vouch for me to take it for the summer.

Ask any guy if he wants to drive an F1 race car and of course he'll say yes. If that same guy is tossed the keys and told to get behind the wheel, unless he was an F1 driver, he'd probably have a bit more trepidation. That was my feeling moving in that week. Of course I was excited to be surrounded by beautiful women all the time, but I was definitely not used to living with more women than my mom and sister and wasn't sure what would happen.

Luckily I had my social skills to fall back on. That spring I started building friendships with the girls in the house who were still in town, and by the time that the full heat of the summer was upon us, I was comfortable in my new home.

I quickly got a firsthand look at the conversations that girls were having about boys. Additionally, I would get to meet all of the guys that were hooking up with the girls in the house, and I soon became friends with the cooler ones. It could not have been a more perfect storm. I got bombarded with the full wonder that is the female mind and also got front row seats to watch how guys who were good with women thought and acted.

By fall, everything was different. My group of guys, which now included several of the guys I met that summer, was one of the "top" groups of guys on campus and I was dating several of the more attractive girls on campus, including a couple of my former housemates. My friends who had been absent that summer noticed the difference and began asking for advice. I became the unofficial "coach" of the group and as they started telling their friends about me, I built up a small reputation as the guy to come to for dating advice for both men and women.

Fast-forward 4 years and a million stories later and I'm working in sales as a mortgage banker for a top company in Michigan, while still being summoned for dating advice in my downtime. While sitting in my cubicle one evening, I get a call from a friend who tells me about a book called "The Game", and suggests that I can actually make a living doing what I had loved doing for the past 4 years.

In what felt like a whirlwind, I started my first blog and started offering my coaching services to the public. Fueled by good reviews, I packed up for what I thought would be a considerable stay in Chicago. During that time, Christian Hudson, an acquaintance from college, was just starting The Social Man and caught wind of some of the reviews coming out of Chicago. He invited me to come out to New York to do some work with him, and 6 months after unpacking my life in the windy city I was once again on the move to Manhattan- and the rest is history.

Everything happens for a reason. Some men were born to rap. Some men were born to program. I am lucky enough to be able to share my accumulated knowledge to help other men achieve social and dating lives that they want for themselves. No man is naturally good with women, but we all can be the moment we make the decision to get this handled.

-- Nick Sparks
(source: http://www.thesocialman.com/ab....out-the-social-man/p

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Everything happens for a reason.

I learned this lesson at a fairly early age. My high school years were spent honing my social skills, and by my freshman year in college I'll admit they were good. I really had no problem making friends and always exhibited a flair for performing that continues to this very day. The kink in my armor, however, was the fact that I still hadn't figured out women.

Those first two years of college, my romantic experiences (which were never very consistent) consisted of the occasional night where I was a bit tipsy at a party, found a girl who was equally tipsy, and somehow manage to not screw anything up. It was after that 2nd year that luckily, fate interceded.

I didn't know what was about to hit me. All I knew was that it was May after my sophomore year, I couldn't go back home for another summer, and I had to find a sublet. Luckily my friend Katie had a room for me to rent in her sorority and would vouch for me to take it for the summer.

Ask any guy if he wants to drive an F1 race car and of course he'll say yes. If that same guy is tossed the keys and told to get behind the wheel, unless he was an F1 driver, he'd probably have a bit more trepidation. That was my feeling moving in that week. Of course I was excited to be surrounded by beautiful women all the time, but I was definitely not used to living with more women than my mom and sister and wasn't sure what would happen.

Luckily I had my social skills to fall back on. That spring I started building friendships with the girls in the house who were still in town, and by the time that the full heat of the summer was upon us, I was comfortable in my new home.

I quickly got a firsthand look at the conversations that girls were having about boys. Additionally, I would get to meet all of the guys that were hooking up with the girls in the house, and I soon became friends with the cooler ones. It could not have been a more perfect storm. I got bombarded with the full wonder that is the female mind and also got front row seats to watch how guys who were good with women thought and acted.

By fall, everything was different. My group of guys, which now included several of the guys I met that summer, was one of the "top" groups of guys on campus and I was dating several of the more attractive girls on campus, including a couple of my former housemates. My friends who had been absent that summer noticed the difference and began asking for advice. I became the unofficial "coach" of the group and as they started telling their friends about me, I built up a small reputation as the guy to come to for dating advice for both men and women.

Fast-forward 4 years and a million stories later and I'm working in sales as a mortgage banker for a top company in Michigan, while still being summoned for dating advice in my downtime. While sitting in my cubicle one evening, I get a call from a friend who tells me about a book called "The Game", and suggests that I can actually make a living doing what I had loved doing for the past 4 years.

In what felt like a whirlwind, I started my first blog and started offering my coaching services to the public. Fueled by good reviews, I packed up for what I thought would be a considerable stay in Chicago. During that time, Christian Hudson, an acquaintance from college, was just starting The Social Man and caught wind of some of the reviews coming out of Chicago. He invited me to come out to New York to do some work with him, and 6 months after unpacking my life in the windy city I was once again on the move to Manhattan- and the rest is history.

Everything happens for a reason. Some men were born to rap. Some men were born to program. I am lucky enough to be able to share my accumulated knowledge to help other men achieve social and dating lives that they want for themselves. No man is naturally good with women, but we all can be the moment we make the decision to get this handled.

-- Nick Sparks
(source: http://www.thesocialman.com/ab....out-the-social-man/p

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About Nick Sparks ( http://www.sparksofattraction.com/ )

Everything happens for a reason.

I learned this lesson at a fairly early age. My high school years were spent honing my social skills, and by my freshman year in college I'll admit they were good. I really had no problem making friends and always exhibited a flair for performing that continues to this very day. The kink in my armor, however, was the fact that I still hadn't figured out women.

Those first two years of college, my romantic experiences (which were never very consistent) consisted of the occasional night where I was a bit tipsy at a party, found a girl who was equally tipsy, and somehow manage to not screw anything up. It was after that 2nd year that luckily, fate interceded.

I didn't know what was about to hit me. All I knew was that it was May after my sophomore year, I couldn't go back home for another summer, and I had to find a sublet. Luckily my friend Katie had a room for me to rent in her sorority and would vouch for me to take it for the summer.

Ask any guy if he wants to drive an F1 race car and of course he'll say yes. If that same guy is tossed the keys and told to get behind the wheel, unless he was an F1 driver, he'd probably have a bit more trepidation. That was my feeling moving in that week. Of course I was excited to be surrounded by beautiful women all the time, but I was definitely not used to living with more women than my mom and sister and wasn't sure what would happen.

Luckily I had my social skills to fall back on. That spring I started building friendships with the girls in the house who were still in town, and by the time that the full heat of the summer was upon us, I was comfortable in my new home.

I quickly got a firsthand look at the conversations that girls were having about boys. Additionally, I would get to meet all of the guys that were hooking up with the girls in the house, and I soon became friends with the cooler ones. It could not have been a more perfect storm. I got bombarded with the full wonder that is the female mind and also got front row seats to watch how guys who were good with women thought and acted.

By fall, everything was different. My group of guys, which now included several of the guys I met that summer, was one of the "top" groups of guys on campus and I was dating several of the more attractive girls on campus, including a couple of my former housemates. My friends who had been absent that summer noticed the difference and began asking for advice. I became the unofficial "coach" of the group and as they started telling their friends about me, I built up a small reputation as the guy to come to for dating advice for both men and women.

Fast-forward 4 years and a million stories later and I'm working in sales as a mortgage banker for a top company in Michigan, while still being summoned for dating advice in my downtime. While sitting in my cubicle one evening, I get a call from a friend who tells me about a book called "The Game", and suggests that I can actually make a living doing what I had loved doing for the past 4 years.

In what felt like a whirlwind, I started my first blog and started offering my coaching services to the public. Fueled by good reviews, I packed up for what I thought would be a considerable stay in Chicago. During that time, Christian Hudson, an acquaintance from college, was just starting The Social Man and caught wind of some of the reviews coming out of Chicago. He invited me to come out to New York to do some work with him, and 6 months after unpacking my life in the windy city I was once again on the move to Manhattan- and the rest is history.

Everything happens for a reason. Some men were born to rap. Some men were born to program. I am lucky enough to be able to share my accumulated knowledge to help other men achieve social and dating lives that they want for themselves. No man is naturally good with women, but we all can be the moment we make the decision to get this handled.

-- Nick Sparks
(source: http://www.thesocialman.com/ab....out-the-social-man/p

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About Nick Sparks ( http://www.sparksofattraction.com/ )

Everything happens for a reason.

I learned this lesson at a fairly early age. My high school years were spent honing my social skills, and by my freshman year in college I'll admit they were good. I really had no problem making friends and always exhibited a flair for performing that continues to this very day. The kink in my armor, however, was the fact that I still hadn't figured out women.

Those first two years of college, my romantic experiences (which were never very consistent) consisted of the occasional night where I was a bit tipsy at a party, found a girl who was equally tipsy, and somehow manage to not screw anything up. It was after that 2nd year that luckily, fate interceded.

I didn't know what was about to hit me. All I knew was that it was May after my sophomore year, I couldn't go back home for another summer, and I had to find a sublet. Luckily my friend Katie had a room for me to rent in her sorority and would vouch for me to take it for the summer.

Ask any guy if he wants to drive an F1 race car and of course he'll say yes. If that same guy is tossed the keys and told to get behind the wheel, unless he was an F1 driver, he'd probably have a bit more trepidation. That was my feeling moving in that week. Of course I was excited to be surrounded by beautiful women all the time, but I was definitely not used to living with more women than my mom and sister and wasn't sure what would happen.

Luckily I had my social skills to fall back on. That spring I started building friendships with the girls in the house who were still in town, and by the time that the full heat of the summer was upon us, I was comfortable in my new home.

I quickly got a firsthand look at the conversations that girls were having about boys. Additionally, I would get to meet all of the guys that were hooking up with the girls in the house, and I soon became friends with the cooler ones. It could not have been a more perfect storm. I got bombarded with the full wonder that is the female mind and also got front row seats to watch how guys who were good with women thought and acted.

By fall, everything was different. My group of guys, which now included several of the guys I met that summer, was one of the "top" groups of guys on campus and I was dating several of the more attractive girls on campus, including a couple of my former housemates. My friends who had been absent that summer noticed the difference and began asking for advice. I became the unofficial "coach" of the group and as they started telling their friends about me, I built up a small reputation as the guy to come to for dating advice for both men and women.

Fast-forward 4 years and a million stories later and I'm working in sales as a mortgage banker for a top company in Michigan, while still being summoned for dating advice in my downtime. While sitting in my cubicle one evening, I get a call from a friend who tells me about a book called "The Game", and suggests that I can actually make a living doing what I had loved doing for the past 4 years.

In what felt like a whirlwind, I started my first blog and started offering my coaching services to the public. Fueled by good reviews, I packed up for what I thought would be a considerable stay in Chicago. During that time, Christian Hudson, an acquaintance from college, was just starting The Social Man and caught wind of some of the reviews coming out of Chicago. He invited me to come out to New York to do some work with him, and 6 months after unpacking my life in the windy city I was once again on the move to Manhattan- and the rest is history.

Everything happens for a reason. Some men were born to rap. Some men were born to program. I am lucky enough to be able to share my accumulated knowledge to help other men achieve social and dating lives that they want for themselves. No man is naturally good with women, but we all can be the moment we make the decision to get this handled.

-- Nick Sparks
(source: http://www.thesocialman.com/ab....out-the-social-man/p

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Nick Sparks demonstrates that a male’s role in a conversation is not to entertain or to constantly be thinking of the next thing to say. Instead, he sheds light on why men place pressure on themselves and identifies strategies to mitigate angst when speaking to women.

In this video, you will learn:

- How the ego can distract you from your main goals.
- Why a conversation is a two-way street.
- How to discover your worth.

About Nick Sparks :

Everything happens for a reason.

I learned this lesson at a fairly early age. My high school years were spent honing my social skills, and by my freshman year in college I'll admit they were good. I really had no problem making friends and always exhibited a flair for performing that continues to this very day. The kink in my armor, however, was the fact that I still hadn't figured out women.

Those first two years of college, my romantic experiences (which were never very consistent) consisted of the occasional night where I was a bit tipsy at a party, found a girl who was equally tipsy, and somehow manage to not screw anything up. It was after that 2nd year that luckily, fate interceded.

I didn't know what was about to hit me. All I knew was that it was May after my sophomore year, I couldn't go back home for another summer, and I had to find a sublet. Luckily my friend Katie had a room for me to rent in her sorority and would vouch for me to take it for the summer.

Ask any guy if he wants to drive an F1 race car and of course he'll say yes. If that same guy is tossed the keys and told to get behind the wheel, unless he was an F1 driver, he'd probably have a bit more trepidation. That was my feeling moving in that week. Of course I was excited to be surrounded by beautiful women all the time, but I was definitely not used to living with more women than my mom and sister and wasn't sure what would happen.

Luckily I had my social skills to fall back on. That spring I started building friendships with the girls in the house who were still in town, and by the time that the full heat of the summer was upon us, I was comfortable in my new home.

I quickly got a firsthand look at the conversations that girls were having about boys. Additionally, I would get to meet all of the guys that were hooking up with the girls in the house, and I soon became friends with the cooler ones. It could not have been a more perfect storm. I got bombarded with the full wonder that is the female mind and also got front row seats to watch how guys who were good with women thought and acted.

By fall, everything was different. My group of guys, which now included several of the guys I met that summer, was one of the "top" groups of guys on campus and I was dating several of the more attractive girls on campus, including a couple of my former housemates. My friends who had been absent that summer noticed the difference and began asking for advice. I became the unofficial "coach" of the group and as they started telling their friends about me, I built up a small reputation as the guy to come to for dating advice for both men and women.

Fast-forward 4 years and a million stories later and I'm working in sales as a mortgage banker for a top company in Michigan, while still being summoned for dating advice in my downtime. While sitting in my cubicle one evening, I get a call from a friend who tells me about a book called "The Game", and suggests that I can actually make a living doing what I had loved doing for the past 4 years.

In what felt like a whirlwind, I started my first blog and started offering my coaching services to the public. Fueled by good reviews, I packed up for what I thought would be a considerable stay in Chicago. During that time, Christian Hudson, an acquaintance from college, was just starting The Social Man and caught wind of some of the reviews coming out of Chicago. He invited me to come out to New York to do some work with him, and 6 months after unpacking my life in the windy city I was once again on the move to Manhattan- and the rest is history.

Everything happens for a reason. Some men were born to rap. Some men were born to program. I am lucky enough to be able to share my accumulated knowledge to help other men achieve social and dating lives that they want for themselves. No man is naturally good with women, but we all can be the moment we make the decision to get this handled.

-- Nick Sparks
(source: http://www.thesocialman.com/about-the-social-man/people/nick-sparks/)

Visit Nick Sparks : http://www.sparksofattraction.com/

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About the speaker Dr. David Tian :

President of the Aura Dating Academy, Managing Director, and Master Mentor.

As a published author and Asia's top dating coach, I help people attain the social intelligence, competence, and confidence they need to achieve success and happiness in dating, relationships, and their lifestyles.

I've lived in several countries as a resident and moved to Singapore to take up a position as a professor in the Department of Philosophy at the National University of Singapore, specialising in Asian religious philosophy, moral philosophy, and philosophical psychology.

I have my Ph.D. in Asian Cultures from the University of Michigan and have held numerous academic fellowships, including from Harvard, Princeton, Peking University, Tsinghua University in Beijing, The Social Sciences and Humanities Research Council of Canada, the University of Toronto, McGill University. I don't tell you this to impress you but to impress upon you how I've been a life-long academic and base all my teachings on solid academic research, including from such diverse fields and disciplines as Asian cultures, psychology, philosophy, biology, neuroscience, sociology, literature, history, and the cutting edge of interdisciplinary research in the behavioral sciences.

Over the years, I've had the great privilege of helping thousands of people from diverse backgrounds and from all over the world, including East and Southeast Asia, North America, Europe, the UK, Australia, and New Zealand. And I'm honored to have served as their guide in surpassing their relationship goals and have been overjoyed to witness some of them go on to become happily married men and even proud fathers!

In late 2010, I resigned my tenure-track professorship at the National University of Singapore to take up my current position at the Aura Dating Academy.

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David Tian, Ph.D., outlines his system of ‘psychological archaeology’ for destroying limiting beliefs. He then illustrates a powerful method for personality change that revolves around honesty.

In this video, you will learn:

- How to identify and overcome limiting beliefs.
- How to express yourself with honesty and authenticity during your interactions with women.
- What matters most for your personal and interpersonal happiness.

About the speaker Dr. David Tian :

President of the Aura Dating Academy, Managing Director, and Master Mentor.

As a published author and Asia's top dating coach, I help people attain the social intelligence, competence, and confidence they need to achieve success and happiness in dating, relationships, and their lifestyles.

I've lived in several countries as a resident and moved to Singapore to take up a position as a professor in the Department of Philosophy at the National University of Singapore, specialising in Asian religious philosophy, moral philosophy, and philosophical psychology.

I have my Ph.D. in Asian Cultures from the University of Michigan and have held numerous academic fellowships, including from Harvard, Princeton, Peking University, Tsinghua University in Beijing, The Social Sciences and Humanities Research Council of Canada, the University of Toronto, McGill University. I don't tell you this to impress you but to impress upon you how I've been a life-long academic and base all my teachings on solid academic research, including from such diverse fields and disciplines as Asian cultures, psychology, philosophy, biology, neuroscience, sociology, literature, history, and the cutting edge of interdisciplinary research in the behavioral sciences.

Over the years, I've had the great privilege of helping thousands of people from diverse backgrounds and from all over the world, including East and Southeast Asia, North America, Europe, the UK, Australia, and New Zealand. And I'm honored to have served as their guide in surpassing their relationship goals and have been overjoyed to witness some of them go on to become happily married men and even proud fathers!

In late 2010, I resigned my tenure-track professorship at the National University of Singapore to take up my current position at the Aura Dating Academy.

Visit David at : http://www.auradating.com/

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About Robbie Kramer:

In case you're wondering, I'm not one of these self-proclaimed dating gurus. I'm just a silly, fun loving and relatively "normal" guy who wants to help you improve your dating life.

The following quote was the story of my life about 6 years ago:

"What is wrong with me, I see beautiful women all the time but I just can't seem to go over and talk to them! And on the rare occasions when I do meet a woman I'm really into, I always find a way to screw it up!"

Before I learned that the study of attracting women existed, I was quick to jump into a relationship because I hated the single life. I had no idea how dating worked and the whole process felt uncomfortable and awkward.

Ironically, when I was in a relationship, I was often bored. When I was single, I often wanted to be in a relationship. "The grass was always greener." I saw beautiful women all the time on campus, at the local bars, at the beach, and at the mall but I had no clue how to talk to them.

In 2005, I learned for the first time that there were people called "Pickup Artists" who could teach you how to meet women. I studied their material like a mad man to learn these elaborate methods, routines and systems they were teaching.

Sometimes, these tactics worked but it was overwhelming to try and remember all this "stuff." When I approached a woman and got a negative reaction, I concluded that I must have screwed up the delivery of the line or routine...

So I would go home, beat myself up for doing poorly and invest more time and energy into studying. Meeting women suddenly became a chore and it stopped being fun.

In fact, I actually got worse!

I was stuck in my head and experiencing paralysis of analysis. It's almost impossible to interact with people, let alone meet women, when you are stuck in your head. And it wasn't that there was anything wrong with the material being taught by the pickup gurus. In fact, most of it was really good stuff. The only problem was that none of it was really the right fit for me. It just didn't feel aligned with who I was.

My real breakthrough came in 2008 when I decided to shift my focus. Rather then focusing on trying to learn more techniques and tactics, I started to look for material that was in alignment with me. What happened was kinda funny. I found the most brilliant material ever! And I didn't even have to go looking for it.

It was there all along, I just had to look inside. When I was in alignment and communicating with people from my truth, I felt much more confident and the women in my life started to notice. Women who had told me that they were "Only interested in being friends," started showing signs of interest.

Ex girlfriends suddenly wanted to "hang out" again. Women I previously considered "Out of my league," started hitting on me!

This may even sound corny, but when I actually started to admire and respect myself, women followed suit! As I built confidence, an abundance of women showed up in my life.

To make a long story short, I made rapid progress by focusing on building confidence... tested and refined the ideas and exercises into a formula... and put it all together.

At the end of the day, it feels amazing to know that I am in control of my life and have the power to create my ideal scenario with the fairer sex. If you are struggling, you probably know what it feels like to walk through life feeling powerless and out of control.

So why should you listen to me?

Well, you shouldn't! I don't claim to be a guru or to have all the answers. But I am very successful at helping others find the answers within themselves. Everything you need to know to create success is already somewhere deep inside of you. My job is to simply bring it to the surface, and help you have fun while doing it.

Life is too short to waste on things that aren't fun!

So don't just blindly listen to me, check in with yourself for the answer. Take what feels true for you and throw away the rest. To make the journey as simple as possible, I distilled the process of building unshakable confidence into a formula. I call it The Formula For Confidence (TM), make sure you grab a copy of my Free Content to learn more about it.

Both my profession and passion is helping men bring forth their own inner confidence and I hope to be of service to you!

Cheers,
-Robbie

Visit Robbie Kramer at http://InnerConfidence.com/21

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Visit Robbie Kramer at http://InnerConfidence.com/21
Follow on Twitter: http://twitter.com/beachmuscles

About Robbie Kramer:

In case you're wondering, I'm not one of these self-proclaimed dating gurus. I'm just a silly, fun loving and relatively "normal" guy who wants to help you improve your dating life.

The following quote was the story of my life about 6 years ago:

"What is wrong with me, I see beautiful women all the time but I just can't seem to go over and talk to them! And on the rare occasions when I do meet a woman I'm really into, I always find a way to screw it up!"

Before I learned that the study of attracting women existed, I was quick to jump into a relationship because I hated the single life. I had no idea how dating worked and the whole process felt uncomfortable and awkward.

Ironically, when I was in a relationship, I was often bored. When I was single, I often wanted to be in a relationship. "The grass was always greener." I saw beautiful women all the time on campus, at the local bars, at the beach, and at the mall but I had no clue how to talk to them.

In 2005, I learned for the first time that there were people called "Pickup Artists" who could teach you how to meet women. I studied their material like a mad man to learn these elaborate methods, routines and systems they were teaching.

Sometimes, these tactics worked but it was overwhelming to try and remember all this "stuff." When I approached a woman and got a negative reaction, I concluded that I must have screwed up the delivery of the line or routine...

So I would go home, beat myself up for doing poorly and invest more time and energy into studying. Meeting women suddenly became a chore and it stopped being fun.

In fact, I actually got worse!

I was stuck in my head and experiencing paralysis of analysis. It's almost impossible to interact with people, let alone meet women, when you are stuck in your head. And it wasn't that there was anything wrong with the material being taught by the pickup gurus. In fact, most of it was really good stuff. The only problem was that none of it was really the right fit for me. It just didn't feel aligned with who I was.

My real breakthrough came in 2008 when I decided to shift my focus. Rather then focusing on trying to learn more techniques and tactics, I started to look for material that was in alignment with me. What happened was kinda funny. I found the most brilliant material ever! And I didn't even have to go looking for it.

It was there all along, I just had to look inside. When I was in alignment and communicating with people from my truth, I felt much more confident and the women in my life started to notice. Women who had told me that they were "Only interested in being friends," started showing signs of interest.

Ex girlfriends suddenly wanted to "hang out" again. Women I previously considered "Out of my league," started hitting on me!

This may even sound corny, but when I actually started to admire and respect myself, women followed suit! As I built confidence, an abundance of women showed up in my life.

To make a long story short, I made rapid progress by focusing on building confidence... tested and refined the ideas and exercises into a formula... and put it all together.

At the end of the day, it feels amazing to know that I am in control of my life and have the power to create my ideal scenario with the fairer sex. If you are struggling, you probably know what it feels like to walk through life feeling powerless and out of control.

So why should you listen to me?

Well, you shouldn't! I don't claim to be a guru or to have all the answers. But I am very successful at helping others find the answers within themselves. Everything you need to know to create success is already somewhere deep inside of you. My job is to simply bring it to the surface, and help you have fun while doing it.

Life is too short to waste on things that aren't fun!

So don't just blindly listen to me, check in with yourself for the answer. Take what feels true for you and throw away the rest. To make the journey as simple as possible, I distilled the process of building unshakable confidence into a formula. I call it The Formula For Confidence (TM), make sure you grab a copy of my Free Content to learn more about it.

Both my profession and passion is helping men bring forth their own inner confidence and I hope to be of service to you!

Cheers,
-Robbie

Visit Robbie Kramer at http://InnerConfidence.com/21

Part 6 of 7 | Merging Inner & Outer Game | Robbie Kramer 21studios 2 Views • 11 years ago

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Subscribe by e-mail: http://www.the21convention.com
Visit Robbie Kramer at http://InnerConfidence.com/21
Follow on Twitter: http://twitter.com/beachmuscles

About Robbie Kramer:

In case you're wondering, I'm not one of these self-proclaimed dating gurus. I'm just a silly, fun loving and relatively "normal" guy who wants to help you improve your dating life.

The following quote was the story of my life about 6 years ago:

"What is wrong with me, I see beautiful women all the time but I just can't seem to go over and talk to them! And on the rare occasions when I do meet a woman I'm really into, I always find a way to screw it up!"

Before I learned that the study of attracting women existed, I was quick to jump into a relationship because I hated the single life. I had no idea how dating worked and the whole process felt uncomfortable and awkward.

Ironically, when I was in a relationship, I was often bored. When I was single, I often wanted to be in a relationship. "The grass was always greener." I saw beautiful women all the time on campus, at the local bars, at the beach, and at the mall but I had no clue how to talk to them.

In 2005, I learned for the first time that there were people called "Pickup Artists" who could teach you how to meet women. I studied their material like a mad man to learn these elaborate methods, routines and systems they were teaching.

Sometimes, these tactics worked but it was overwhelming to try and remember all this "stuff." When I approached a woman and got a negative reaction, I concluded that I must have screwed up the delivery of the line or routine...

So I would go home, beat myself up for doing poorly and invest more time and energy into studying. Meeting women suddenly became a chore and it stopped being fun.

In fact, I actually got worse!

I was stuck in my head and experiencing paralysis of analysis. It's almost impossible to interact with people, let alone meet women, when you are stuck in your head. And it wasn't that there was anything wrong with the material being taught by the pickup gurus. In fact, most of it was really good stuff. The only problem was that none of it was really the right fit for me. It just didn't feel aligned with who I was.

My real breakthrough came in 2008 when I decided to shift my focus. Rather then focusing on trying to learn more techniques and tactics, I started to look for material that was in alignment with me. What happened was kinda funny. I found the most brilliant material ever! And I didn't even have to go looking for it.

It was there all along, I just had to look inside. When I was in alignment and communicating with people from my truth, I felt much more confident and the women in my life started to notice. Women who had told me that they were "Only interested in being friends," started showing signs of interest.

Ex girlfriends suddenly wanted to "hang out" again. Women I previously considered "Out of my league," started hitting on me!

This may even sound corny, but when I actually started to admire and respect myself, women followed suit! As I built confidence, an abundance of women showed up in my life.

To make a long story short, I made rapid progress by focusing on building confidence... tested and refined the ideas and exercises into a formula... and put it all together.

At the end of the day, it feels amazing to know that I am in control of my life and have the power to create my ideal scenario with the fairer sex. If you are struggling, you probably know what it feels like to walk through life feeling powerless and out of control.

So why should you listen to me?

Well, you shouldn't! I don't claim to be a guru or to have all the answers. But I am very successful at helping others find the answers within themselves. Everything you need to know to create success is already somewhere deep inside of you. My job is to simply bring it to the surface, and help you have fun while doing it.

Life is too short to waste on things that aren't fun!

So don't just blindly listen to me, check in with yourself for the answer. Take what feels true for you and throw away the rest. To make the journey as simple as possible, I distilled the process of building unshakable confidence into a formula. I call it The Formula For Confidence (TM), make sure you grab a copy of my Free Content to learn more about it.

Both my profession and passion is helping men bring forth their own inner confidence and I hope to be of service to you!

Cheers,
-Robbie

Visit Robbie Kramer at http://InnerConfidence.com/21

Part 7 of 7 | Merging Inner & Outer Game | Robbie Kramer 21studios 2 Views • 11 years ago

21 Studios needs your support to keep helping millions of men. Learn how at https://21studios.com/donate Subscribe on Youtube: http://t21c.com/12YTr3X
Subscribe by e-mail: http://www.the21convention.com
Visit Robbie Kramer at http://InnerConfidence.com/21
Follow on Twitter: http://twitter.com/beachmuscles

About Robbie Kramer:

In case you're wondering, I'm not one of these self-proclaimed dating gurus. I'm just a silly, fun loving and relatively "normal" guy who wants to help you improve your dating life.

The following quote was the story of my life about 6 years ago:

"What is wrong with me, I see beautiful women all the time but I just can't seem to go over and talk to them! And on the rare occasions when I do meet a woman I'm really into, I always find a way to screw it up!"

Before I learned that the study of attracting women existed, I was quick to jump into a relationship because I hated the single life. I had no idea how dating worked and the whole process felt uncomfortable and awkward.

Ironically, when I was in a relationship, I was often bored. When I was single, I often wanted to be in a relationship. "The grass was always greener." I saw beautiful women all the time on campus, at the local bars, at the beach, and at the mall but I had no clue how to talk to them.

In 2005, I learned for the first time that there were people called "Pickup Artists" who could teach you how to meet women. I studied their material like a mad man to learn these elaborate methods, routines and systems they were teaching.

Sometimes, these tactics worked but it was overwhelming to try and remember all this "stuff." When I approached a woman and got a negative reaction, I concluded that I must have screwed up the delivery of the line or routine...

So I would go home, beat myself up for doing poorly and invest more time and energy into studying. Meeting women suddenly became a chore and it stopped being fun.

In fact, I actually got worse!

I was stuck in my head and experiencing paralysis of analysis. It's almost impossible to interact with people, let alone meet women, when you are stuck in your head. And it wasn't that there was anything wrong with the material being taught by the pickup gurus. In fact, most of it was really good stuff. The only problem was that none of it was really the right fit for me. It just didn't feel aligned with who I was.

My real breakthrough came in 2008 when I decided to shift my focus. Rather then focusing on trying to learn more techniques and tactics, I started to look for material that was in alignment with me. What happened was kinda funny. I found the most brilliant material ever! And I didn't even have to go looking for it.

It was there all along, I just had to look inside. When I was in alignment and communicating with people from my truth, I felt much more confident and the women in my life started to notice. Women who had told me that they were "Only interested in being friends," started showing signs of interest.

Ex girlfriends suddenly wanted to "hang out" again. Women I previously considered "Out of my league," started hitting on me!

This may even sound corny, but when I actually started to admire and respect myself, women followed suit! As I built confidence, an abundance of women showed up in my life.

To make a long story short, I made rapid progress by focusing on building confidence... tested and refined the ideas and exercises into a formula... and put it all together.

At the end of the day, it feels amazing to know that I am in control of my life and have the power to create my ideal scenario with the fairer sex. If you are struggling, you probably know what it feels like to walk through life feeling powerless and out of control.

So why should you listen to me?

Well, you shouldn't! I don't claim to be a guru or to have all the answers. But I am very successful at helping others find the answers within themselves. Everything you need to know to create success is already somewhere deep inside of you. My job is to simply bring it to the surface, and help you have fun while doing it.

Life is too short to waste on things that aren't fun!

So don't just blindly listen to me, check in with yourself for the answer. Take what feels true for you and throw away the rest. To make the journey as simple as possible, I distilled the process of building unshakable confidence into a formula. I call it The Formula For Confidence (TM), make sure you grab a copy of my Free Content to learn more about it.

Both my profession and passion is helping men bring forth their own inner confidence and I hope to be of service to you!

Cheers,
-Robbie

Visit Robbie Kramer at http://InnerConfidence.com/21

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