And we all thought Terry was so mean on account of his Momma

All jesting aside, are we all photocopies of our parents and all their issues.....

And I am not shit stirring you Terry, not in a stupid arsehole way - the spin is that with you doing all the high end army stuff, then you must have a pretty tough arse of a mother - "This is the Funny thrust of this joke"...

I could have renamed it, "Terry has been wagging school, and his mum is out to get him". Like as in there are parents who will literally hunt their kids down and not kill them, but if you break their rules, they will fuck you over... And this "Mother" could have been spun as being in relentless pursuit.... as in really out to get you.

And these as you might gather, are not shallow skim over the issues, comments, they are sort of fall off a bottomless cliff type comments - there is a lot in them, if you really think about them....

I myself have been tripping out over the really nasty mean-ness of my fathers influences, and the really psychotic crazy-ness of my BPD mother.... For the last few days.

These are some of the common threads we share.

So this merriment, can be gateways to a good laugh, and they can also be gateways to deep healing. Kind of like thinning the gun lube wit a little kerosene in the extreme cold. A few drops in the right places, and it all starts to operate.....