Esther Vilar. The manipulated man. A dictionary.

It's called 'Womanese'! What she says is never her actual intention. It is encoded for her protection so that she can accept or reject based upon how she feels; what or how she is perceived (social construct); or hypergamous intentions. Her question to you is never the real question, but is meant to feel you out and not feel rejected, if your answer does not fit in her world. It's called 'Dissimulation' -hiding her true intent; to deceive; to manipulate. -the Warrior