He's on date with Susan but she doesn't look quite like her photo (Read my pinned comment)

This is hilarious, atleast he's a classy catfish. Is this on YouTube? It's great

If that was me I'd put that freak in the emergency room!

See I'd be quite OK with going on a social date with "Susan" - as freinds - to the massive public library etc., and generally interesting outings and for a meal together, if this person is an interesting kind of a person, who has been doing interesting things with her (?) life.....

But it's the fact that this person is a conceited shit......
Who lies in "her" dating profile.... SHE is a HE.
She (?) has no real worth while life skills or interests - that she is putting as her best foot forward so to speak.
AND she is just scumming it as a retarded clown of a gay bitch.... Free Loading and Entitled

It's just low yield, low IQ, manipulation, lies and deceit....

I mean you can make some wonderful friends out of some incredible people - but tragic and pathetic and scummy and deceitful - that forfeits all grounds for all relationships at all levels.....

And the REAL value up to a point in any relationship - is what you can give and share with others, not what you can TAKE from them.

And "Susan" is just leading with the, "Take, Take, Take, Take, Take, Take - Because I am entitled to it and your going to give it" - ALL in the first few minutes ALONG with the lying (A gay guy - NOT a woman) - and the sanest response is basically "Fuck Off and Good Bye".

You don't owe them anything.

However IF "Susan" had of had an interest in any thing - like botanics or aerospace engineering or calligraphy or marine eco systems etc....

Going out on a "friendly" date every month - like getting some flippers and a snorkel and diving in the estury near the ending of the high tide coming in so you get the clear sea water and having a BBQ afterwards...

Or going to the aviation museum...

Or going to the historical archives to look at all the hand written documents... ( and yes I have seen the GIANT wizards book of the Melbourne Sewerage System in 1887 - Incredible book) from places like monestaries, the closed to the public sections of really really old public libraries, etc.

Or going on guided tours of factories etc....

Or joining in hobby types of clubs.... Electronics, etc.

Spending a bit of time looking for imteresting places to go and interesting things to do.

Having a monthly "freindly" outing.... These can be really good things.. over the longer term.....

You can have really rewarding relationships with a whole heap of different people - But "Susan" has very little in the way of good cards to play and she played all the wrong ones from the very beginning....


Gay or Straight, Male or Female - "Susan" is no different to this chick.... https://www.mgtow.tv/v/PtnSkS

So I am relatively "colour blind" to a lot of things - I just say, "is this a good relationship or not?"

With Blondie the hot piece of arse, or "Susan" the gay female impersonator - neither of them have much in the way of desirable character traits... and like Terry Gorskie said, (parapharasing it a bit) "Sure people have sexual attraction - BUT if that is the opening line and this is ALL there is to go on when starting a relationship - it's ALL the other issues that come right along with it, that you don't know about, that are the real problem....

So does the real problem begin when the "relationship" starts with "Lets Fuck" or does it start when the storm blows over the horizion soon after?

So if they don't bring anything of value to the table from the beginning - then they usually are going to be problematic people.

So you have to study your subject first and to get to know them, in small and incremental steps and to build in "Keep Going" or "Bail Out" switches at every step....

This has been a real life saver in terms of being a sign post if you don't know how to have relationships.... or can't figure out the differences between SANE relationships and off the wall psychotic relationships....

The 7 main differences between healthy and addictive relationships.
https://www.mgtow.tv/v/Wl3Tvf


There is also the thing, that we are all damaged goods to different degrees in various ways.
AND as fucked up as "Susuan" is - the issue becomes a consideration of all people at least deserve a chance - to take control of the situation and offer up a better deal, rather than do a transactional feed and a fuck for what I assume to be a desperate and lonely person who just isn't making it... and doesn't know how to do any better.

Maybe floating the offer of ONE decent square meal a week and cultivating their hopes and dreams and interests - rather than some bullshit transactional scam...

Maybe they MIGHT seize the opportunity, maybe they might shit can it and continue with the scams and the crap and the manipulation - until the day they die....

But it's at least worth planting the seed first.

Most people are at least open to a little kindness, and some people will just exploit it and you in the process.

But to some people - you can be a life saver....

And you can make all the difference.

So if I had of been in that situation with "Susan" - I would have nailed "her" point blank - your pulling a fucking scam, your life is probably lonely, empty and you have no future - and this is what it has come too - IF I gave you the opportunity to have ONE meeting a week, to go and explore the world together for a couple of hours, with all the opportunities available to you, that come from doing this, would you take it, or do you want to continue with this crap until the day you die?"

And then watch the response.

Remembering that talk is cheap... and many people make many promises that they never follow through on and that your not responsible for rescuing them, and you don't have to tie your self to all the sinking ships...

AND it's OK to just cut them loose or to have never tied yourself to them and all their issues in the first place - but an offer is easy to make and an unkept acceptance is easy to break.