It Is OK For MEN To CRY? - How To Deal With Emotions As A Man?

Hey Bulldogs! John Sonmez from Bulldog Mindset Here, where I teach you how to go from the Victim Mindset to the Bulldog Mindset.

There is a big misconception when it comes to men showing emotions, especially negative emotions such as crying. The moment you ask is it okay for guys to cry, everyone bombard you with different opinions some saying men should never cry, others say that men should connect to to their feminine side, while other say that men should never cry in front of anyone but themselves...

Well as you might have guessed it, this topic was suggested by one of my followers who asked are there situations where men are allowed to cry, and is it okay for men to cry, he gave examples of falling ill to some serious disease or having a loved one passe away.

When we talk about men, they're humans too and they have emotions, they are also affected by their environment and they feel and large range of emotions, whether you're a man or a female it's just how we function as biological creatures. What counts isn't crying or feeling sad but rather will you let your emotions take the best of you.

Being controlled by your emotions is the difference between being consumed by fear but regardless going and facing the saber tooth or the mammoth to protect you family, or will you get paralyzed run and let them to be devoured.

Same thing goes for crying the question shouldn't exactly be is it okay of men to cry, but what follows after that? do they just get depressed and do nothing? do they give up on life and give in to their negative emotions? or they wipe those tears and advance regardless of the hardships and problems that are facing them.

Whether you agree or not you have to know how to deal with emotions, especially sad emotions.

And that the opposite between the masculine and the feminine, the masculine is the one that deals with its own problem and internalize it, while the feminine throw out of to the world and have you deal with it.

Women are more open with their emotions, while guys, the masculines ones are not, because they're put in positions where they have to hurt people.

So when you ask is it okay for guys to cry in front of a woman, it's the wrong question, it's impossible for you not to show emotions, not to feel fear, sad or anxious but what matter is what are you gonna do then, are you gonna take actions or let your emotions master you.

Showing emotions, just show you have a heart that you are a human too, but what counts is what are you gonna do about it, your reactions and actions that follows the emotions.

Anyways I will go a bit in depth about this topic in the video so make sure you watch it. And I will see you in the next video!

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