It seems guys going their own way are the only ones better than this mess

You think this is bad....

I have fruit flys having sex on my banana.
They are laying their eggs in my banana.
And I am eating the banana and their babies.

I guess as long as it's not rotten brown and slushy - the maggots in the fruit are considered to be highly prized by the wildlife and they are sweet and good protein.

AND as fresh fruit is highly prized, expensive and a real treat, I am eating the pears with the maggots in them....

Delicious.

I like what BB has been saying about "the red pill" and "the manosphere" as of late. The red pill term itself is a very good metaphor presented very well in the Matrix movie. Neo took the red pill, looked out the window, and saw everything as it actually is. Of importance, and apparently lost at present, is Neo didn't draw any conclusions, or even say anything. He just looked at it and saw the hellscape he lived in for what it was. This is what "getting red pilled" is for us -- having some moment or experience that snaps us out of our societal conditioning trance so that we see the decayed and diseased shit show evil Clown World that we live in for what it is. This is why those of us who actually have taken the red pill immediately see, as BB briefly describes, that the tradcucks pushing us to marry and have lots of kids and/or the pickup roaches pushing us to "be excellent" and smash 50 trollops are promoting a path that -- with substantial and unacceptably high probability -- will only ruin a man's life in the present shit show evil Clown World were all now unfortunately embedded in.

As to the ruination of the red pill metaphor to its present widespread complete misuse, it was inevitable. This degradation goes back to the YouTwat ad apocalypse and then all the channel deletions, shadow banning, and all the other censorship techniques, which YouTwat did in conjunction with promoting PUA roach channels. This created the impression, to anybody new, that red pill means approaching life by embracing only animalistic urges, not even acknowledging anything more, something like how a cockroach proceeds through life. There's nothing any genuine MGTOW content creator or any MGTOW at all could have done to prevent this YouTwat course of action. Not to worry. We simply go our own way from all the bullshit -- all of it -- not merely the marriage/cohabitation/children life-ruination trap.

If we let usurpers come in and redefine our terms, then those terms end up meaningless. The Red Pill used to mean something very specific and many using it today do not fit with that meaning.

I actually think we should have tried outing the scammers in this community harder before they took over and essentially stole the term RP. Nowadays if some new kid tries to look up Redpill stuff on Youtube they will get hit with Deepstate Tate, Fresh+Fed, and JustPearlyScams... plus other douches selling $700 courses. The lost young kid will either think their BS is true, or get frustrated and give up looking for the truth altogether.

The "Silly Season" (election infighting) is back, with a vengeance. No person (especially politicians) will solve our self inflicted problems. However after MUCH more suffering, the Creator (for those willing to listen) will show us how it's done.