Living a Life Without People

Aaaarroonn - I deliberately spelled you name with twice as many letters.

Hows that.

How come you never reply to anyones comments or are you just plain rude or stupid?

yep, reminding oneself how good one has it is very important. i know i live better life than 99.99% of population, even though i am not living a life of a james bond.

the point about society not leaving you alone is true. i have been removing stressors from my life for ever. but live will always just barge in and demand shit from you. it could be just a stupid email or a friend or family member calls you and suddenly you are in stress for no fault of yours. it sucks but there is just no way to avoid it, unfortunately.

so i am just 23 minutes in but couple of things i will say:

1. the main issue is that almost all people are incapable of being alone. most will simply feel lonely and get depressed form lack of human contact. they simply literally depend on other people. and many who say they are ok being alone go nuts after week or couple of actually being alone. so being alone and being ok with being alone is actually a superpower. i am not sure it can be taught, i think it has to be lived through childhood and develop this "abundance" mindset.

2. to expand on point 1, if you move to a foreign country with foreign culture, demography, religion and language you will be literally alone. Even if you will get by with english or even learning the local language, you will never belong. unless you are still a kid, you will have only one home and will never find another. so you will always feel different, because you will be. and that will make you feel alone and lonely. so beware of that. plenty of expats return back home after 10, 20, even more years simply because they never belong and that feeling never goes away.

3. the best thing to do with free time, besides what aaron said is to always try to come up with a project. but not a technical one. like mowing a lwn or fixing a squeeing doors. no, i am talking about creative project. so try to write a novel, learn how to work with wood and make a statue. make a mould and pour liquid iron into it to create something out of it(i saw a guy make iron man mask or thanos' glove via 3d printed model). learn how to work with electronics and program arduino computers and make something out of it. things like that. something where the end result is an art and not a product.

4. about the relaxing and house exterior. me, personally, i want to have a house with flower garden and with palm tress and fruit trees. not for eating but for beauty. i am not into gardening, i just want to have a good and relaxing environment where i can chill, smoke a cigar, listen to birds sing and preferably have a nice view of the ocean and mountains.

5. interior decoration - i have seen plenty of nice designs and house interiors. one should really do a lot of research to see what is out there before committing to a style. in my last two apartments there was a wallpaper which is not common in here and i must say i really liked it. small detail that i will most likely utilize later on. also, about the feng-shuei. i highly recommend to simply arrange the furniture in a way that puts nothing in the middle of the room but everything is spread around the walls. that way you will feel spacious and nothing will stand in your way no matter which direction you go.