So You Got Your Very First Girlfriend

She admits to kissing a guy (really had sex with him), says she doesn't consider that cheating, and he can go kiss other girls she doesn't mind ?
Only internet curmudgeons and illegal red/blackpillers will tell you the truth of this. Nobody in real life will ever tell you the truth, they will even gaslight you after you learn the truth yourself.
You have to have zero tolerance with women, the smallest infraction and you ghost permanently. No arguments, no discussions, no explaining what she did wrong. She does something you don't like, you block her number and walk past her in public. Anyone who tries to talk to you about her gets told to stfu, if they don't, they get ghosted too.
It sucks that society is so bad that this has to be the solution, but it is that bad, and it's either be a dick or be a victim. This IS the collapse. There are no trustworthy men and no quality women, that is the end of a civilization. Only Hollywood brain-damaged people think collapse means Mad Max.

I am not an advocate of screwing around - but I am an advocate of socialisation and the picking of the locks in their heads and being rooted in sanity.

There is a REAL lot to be said for "traditional families and family values" - and the free range fucking around - it shows a lack of grounding, and a lack of a stable family environment.

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I remember dating this Christian chick who wanted to wait on the sex thing until marriage. Once she had moved out of her parents place to goto college, she did me, then schoolmates at college, strangers in NYC.

I had lost my virginity to some other girl in high school, I had a goal to loose the virgin part of my before graduating.

When I did it with the christian girl, she thought it would be special.

It was special alright... the event turned her into a lying slut. Oh well...

On to better things!